Michael's
Story
I was 20 and three weeks away
from living my dream of being a horseman in Montana. Living a
carefree
life, a young man’s adventure-type life.
When
Your Dreams Are Crushed
And then, one night, two friends
and I were coming home from a roping competition and up ahead was a
deer, stunned by my headlights. I swerved to miss her. And
in that moment my life changed. Fortunately, my friends were
thrown free from my Jeep. I, however, experienced the full impact
of the Jeep rolling over me. Crushing my spine, my body and my
dreams with its weight and force. I lay there, unconscious. When
the medics arrived my friends inquired about me. The medics said,
there was no hope, a sheet was pulled over my face. Fortunately, my friends prevailed and
insisted that I could not be dead…..and the medics listened….and heard
a faint heart beat. I was urgently taken to the local hospital
emergency room, where the doctor on duty happened to be a family
friend. He immediately called my family “Come quick, there isn’t
much time.” A helicopter was flown in, there was no heliport…it
landed in the parking lot and then flew me to Northwestern University
Hospital. Upon arrival I was evaluated and given 24 hours to
live.
When Others
Don’t Believe
You see, the doctors could only
see what was on the x-rays and in the test results. They could
only see that my heart was so crushed and twisted that it was like a
wet dish cloth that was squeezed and rung out. They could only
see that there was air and fluid collecting around my heart, they could
only see that my spine was severely damaged. They could only see
that my journey was about to end. You see, they only saw me as
unable. All of these people were caught up in what is, not what
could be……..
When
You Reach Deep Down, To Rise Up
But what they could not see was
the determination that was inside me. You see these doctors could
not see because they were looking backwards, backwards at statistics,
at histories from long ago. They saw me as mangled flesh and
bones. But there was determination…..and a miracle. The doctors came in to x-ray my
torso. In the room, there stood my father and my mother,
expecting to hear the worst.
They all were stunned the doctors, my father, my mother, the air and
the water that had surrounded my heart had vanished, it was absorbed,
it was gone. I had chosen to live. And now the choice was
mine….how was I going to live. The doctors now told me that I
would not walk again and my life would be really affected because of my
injuries.
When
You Choose to Live YOUR Life
At first I thought….”What am I
going to do?” But I was determined not to let this injury or what
the doctors thought affect the outcome. I chose to give them the
benefit of the doubt, after all, they didn’t know me. It was my
choice whether or not this perspective was going to define me.
A Life Journey, A
Gift of the Horse
It is a journey that has taken me,
and I am sure has taken you to unimaginable places, has unearthed from
you unimaginable emotions, and explored the potential of who you have
been created to be. Yes, the journey takes you to people, places
and things. But the journey goes deep within you. You
explore your ability, your determination, your courage, you come to an
ever present and an ever new understanding of who you really are.
Observe the Nuances
Michael’s leads us on this
journey by making us aware of our own expressions and body
language, which is the primary language that the horse knows and
understands. Michael’s goal is to establish a line of
communication and build a relationship with the horse and human by
addressing the subtle changes in the horse expressions and body
language.
You
Can’t Change the Circumstances So Change Who You Become Because of Them.
The circumstances in our lives
urge us to release our belief that we can control our world and the
outcomes. Michael’s goal is to build a rapport with the horse and
human rather than use aides for domination, control, manipulation or
submission. He shows us how that we succeed through releasing,
through observing, and enjoying the journey, rather than being
preoccupied by the destination.
